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Lifelong
friend and former Great Britain team-mate Joe Lydon:
“
My memory, on reading or hearing the name Mike Gregory, is
jolted back to his playing days as captain of his club and
country. Like so many, I’m sure, I hold a vivid picture
in my mind’s eye of a powerful athlete wearing a head
band, tight shorts and the number 13 jersey. He is carrying
the ball in one hand as he enters the field of play with
a swagger that borders on arrogance. This distinctive gait
is
partly due to a troubled knee and partly born out of confidence.
My memory turns easily to partying as hard as he has undoubtedly
played or trained. That same confidence and determination remain,
now accompanied by a wicked sense of humour, a streak of devilment
and an infectious enthusiasm.

As I smile to myself, and believe
me there are many memories and exploits to smile about,
reality bites and I see the present
day Mike.
Gone is the powerful physique that he worked so
hard to create, the swagger, the confidence, the banter.
But before
anger sets
in at the cruel injustice, I quickly realise that what
remains, what is constant, are the core values, the heart
encased in
a stubborn shell.
Courage, determination, a sharp mind
and a love and appreciation of family, friends and laughter.
These are the qualities
that deserve to be applauded and afforded the superlatives
that
are too often used without real merit.
These are the qualities that define the man I have
had the pleasure to play alongside and to call my friend.
These are
the same qualities that should stand as a reminder
to
us all of what must be valued in sport, at home and
in life.
Thanks
Greg - here’s to the future, the fight, the values
you hold so dear... and the return of the swagger.” |
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Good
friend Glenn Sweeney
In his best selling book, Wayne Bennett
refers to it as “ Mateship”. “When
your friend’s in a bit of strife, you lend him a hand.
Rally round for him”. Well, that’s what we are
doing for Greg. This is actually a microcosm of what a perfect
society should be like . It’s testimony to the amount
Greg has given over the years in terms of time, effort and
support to so many people, not just rugby players, but schools
and anyone else that asked for his help, that so many are
willing to stand up and demonstrate a bit of “Mateship”.
He’s earned it. I’ve stood and watched him sign
dozens and dozens of autographs for kids, refusing no-one,
outside Wilderspool. He didn’t just scrawl a squiggle
on the page, to each and every kid, he’d look’em
straight in the eye, and give’em a wink and say “thanks
mate”. The kid would go away feeling ten foot tall,
with a huge grin on their face, and say to their parent “ Mike
Gregory said thanks and called me ‘mate!”, and
you know what, he meant it! Each and every single time he
meant it. The bloke is that genuine. We used to play squash
about three times a week, and we’d come off the court
every time, absolutely knackered. Given everything. Most
times he beat me, but give everything, and then thank me
for pushing him so hard, but my squash was getting better
for having played him. My friendship with him has been just
like that. I am a better bloke for knowing him. I can honestly
say I’ve never spent a bad moment in his company. Greg,
as one of the founding members of the Dead Postman’s
Society was.. (Sorry can’t tell you any more or I’ll
have to kill you). What I can tell you is, he was a prominent
member of the “Pagefield St. Lazy Club” with
a lousy taste in videos. We once sent him on his own to select
two videos’ for the afternoon repose and he came back
with “Chucky 3” and “ King Ralph”,
we never sent him again. I think that was his plan all along!
Crafty *******.
In his immortal poem, “If”, Rudyard
Kipling penned the following lines, which could have been
written solely for Mike Gregory:
” If you can talk
with crowds and keep your virtue yet walk with kings,
nor lose the common touch if neither foe nor loving friend
can
hurt you yet all men count with you but none too much.
If you can fill the unforgiving minute with 60 seconds worth
of distance run, yours is the earth-and everything in
it-and
which is more- you’ll be a man my son”.
Greg,
you certainly are a man, mate. A top man, and I’m
looking forward to sculling some Guinness, and battling
out on the
squash court as soon as you are better.
Hasta Glenn Sweeney |
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